TftD: The 4 Seeds of Negative Karma that Hold you Back

Extract from Defrag your Soul….

Only four things hold you back from that which your heart truly desires….

1. Shame

There is no shame in failure but failure is endemic to shame.

2. Anger/Resentment

Resentment is like poisoning yourself whilst waiting for someone to die.

Better still,

Holding a grudge is letting someone live rent-free in your head.

Sourced from the Internet.

3. Sadness/Hurt

I’ve cried, and you’d think I’d be better for it, but the sadness just sleeps, and it stays in my spine the rest of my life.

Conor Oberst

4. Fear

F. E. A. R. = False expectations appearing real.

These four negative emotions serve a purpose. For example, when you have learned all you need to know about shame, you have readied yourself to appreciate not-shame – i.e. to feel good about yourself. To appreciate a high vibration fully, you need to know about its exact opposite.

Such is duality:

Shame –> not-Shame –> e.g. feel okay, feel good, self compassion, caring for self, trusting self, self worth, self liking, self love, love
Anger–>not-Anger–>e.g. composed, relaxed, fondness, love
Sadness–>not-Sad–>e.g. joy, happiness, serenity, expansion, wisdom, love
Fear–>not-Fear–>courage, faith, fearlessness, stillness, wisdom, love.

The opposites of all four seeds of negative karma lead ultimately to love. When you release shame, anger, sadness and fear, you journey towards love, borne of oneness, borne of the divine.

Where does life’s journey take me?

To truth, your truth, love, oneness, your divine self.

Duality: anything that is not truth, not love or not oneness is not divine.

Shine on…!
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Paul C Burr
Author of Quick Guide: How Top Salespeople Sell, Learn to Love and Be Loved in Return, 2012: a twist in the tail and Defrag your Soul
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