Self-Coaching Tool about Relationships.

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Rather than seeing success as a specific outcome, change your focus to seeing it as a network of  ’10 out of 10′ relationships. When everyone who can stop you achieving success is onside – there is no one and nothing to stop you.

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You cannot achieve success without forging equally successful relationships – starting with the relationship you have with yourself.

Think of a business or personal situation that’s important to you right now.

Who are all the people (include yourself) who can stop you from being successful (i.e. they have the power of veto)?

Give your relationship with each person a score out of 10, where 10 means ‘the relationship with this person is exactly where we both want it to be’.

To get the relationship to a 10, what does each person on the list want from you?

Are you willing to give it? (And what might you want in return?)

If so when?

Go give.

Shine on…!
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Paul C Burr
Author of Learn to Love and Be Loved in Return, 2012: a twist in the tail and Defrag your Soul

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  1. #1 by benefits on July 22, 2014 - 19:48

    Hey! Would you mind if I share your blog with my zytnga group?
    There’s a lot of people that I think would really appreciate your content.
    Please let me know. Thanks

    • #2 by Doctapaul on July 23, 2014 - 00:59

      Be my guest – cheers
      What is ZYTNGA pls?

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